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Why do my earrings fall off badly?

Earrings are not just simple fashion accessories, they are expressions of style and personality. But what to do when your earrings don't fall the way you want them to? Several factors can influence how your earrings sit or hold, from the different type of earrings you choose to the type of earlobe you have.


Knowing the different types of ears can go a long way in selecting earrings that will not only compliment your style, but also your comfort. The wrong choice can not only distort your look, but also cause discomfort or even pain . In this article, we'll explore common problems associated with earrings and how they affect both style and comfort. Let's enrich our discussion with concepts about the outer ear, earlobes and different ear shapes to help you make informed choices.

Understanding Earlobe Problems

Earring weight

Weight is an essential criterion in choosing an earring that fits well . Jewelry that is too heavy can lead to earlobe deformation and even long-term damage. Earlobes vary in size and elasticity, which affects their ability to support certain types of curls. To prevent your earrings from pulling down, opt for lighter models if you have thin or stretched lobes. For pearl earrings, limit yourself to those in small sizes, such as 5 mm , 6 mm or 7.5 mm . Always choose sturdy ties close to the lobe for a perfect fit and optimal comfort.

Type of clasps

Clasps and buckle types play a very important role in the comfort and security of women's earrings, dangle or not.

  • The regular clasp with post and butterfly is the most common. Butterfly types vary in size – regular, large, small – providing different grips depending on the weight of the loop.
  • The screw clasp, whose butterfly screws in, is very secure and regularly used for children's earrings or earrings set with large precious stones.
  • The Alpa clasp attaches a stem with two small elevations to a disc with a safety catch that activates when pressure is applied.
  • The hook earring simply hangs on the ear. The longer the hook, the more stable it will be and the more naturally the loop will fit. It is appreciated for its ease of use, suitable for light daily wear.
  • The huggies hoop earring connects a post to a recessed clasp system that secures with a click and forms a full loop.
  • The sleeper earring has a spring clasp system which, unlike huggies, connects the two posts without fixing them. The clasp snaps into place to form a complete loop.
  • The lever clasp has a spring that folds a secure plate onto the post.
  • Lobe supports press against the back of the ear to lift the earring in the case of a softer lobe.

Earlobe Problems

Earlobe type is the main reason for earrings that don't fit properly . Lobes can be classified into small, medium and large with soft or firm tendencies, each requiring a specific curl type to optimize aesthetics and comfort. Soft or stretched lobes will benefit from secure clasps or lobe supports to prevent the earrings from pulling further on the lobe. Firmer lobes allow more flexibility in loop choice. For those with fragile lobes, try lightweight, well-balanced curls to avoid distortion. Women with small earlobes should avoid wearing earrings that are too voluminous at all costs.

Hole positioning issues

Improperly positioned holes can detract from the appearance of the earrings. If the holes are not symmetrical or if they are placed too high, the jewelry will not fall properly. To correct this, we recommend making a 2nd ear hole to regain symmetry. Adding a 3rd ear hole can also provide more options for jewelry placement. If in doubt, consult a professional to assess your earlobe and determine the best solution available to you.

Choosing earrings adapted to the shape of the face

Choosing the right earrings for your face shape can transform your appearance, playing to your strengths and balancing your facial proportions. For a round face, drop earrings and vertical hoop earrings help to visually elongate the face. Oval faces, considered ideally proportioned, pair well with almost any style, including button earrings .


Square faces, usually caused by a strong jawline, will benefit from hoop earrings or rounded shapes that soften angular features, while long faces are highlighted by leverback earrings that add subtle width . For those with a heart-shaped face, hook or statement earrings that widen at the base can balance a narrower jawline.

Illustration comprenant cinq visages de différentes formes; ovale, carrée, ronde, longue et coeur.

Face shapes: oval, square, round, long and heart

Effective solutions to prevent earrings from falling out

Choice of materials

To ensure that the earrings perfectly complement your look without causing discomfort, it is essential to choose materials suitable for the type of earlobe . Lightweight, durable materials such as sterling silver and gold are recommended for their ability to preserve the shape of the lobe. For sensitive people, hypoallergenic materials like yellow gold and white gold help avoid irritation and discomfort. Something to consider is that rose gold contains copper in its alloy and may not be suitable for some people.

Personalization of earrings

Customizing the earrings allows for adjustment to avoid the problem of the earring falling off . Consulting an experienced jeweler not only allows you to adapt the earrings to the specificity of your earlobe but also guarantees optimal comfort and a refined aesthetic.

Maintenance tips

To maintain the quality and durability of earrings over the long term, it is essential to benefit from regular maintenance services. Flamme en rose jewelry store , located in the heart of Montreal, offers personalized maintenance and repair services for your jewelry. Whether your earrings need polishing, repair or readjustment, our expert jewelers use cutting-edge techniques to restore shine and functionality to your precious fashion accessories. Do not hesitate to contact our team .

Earrings that complement your style perfectly

To choose your earrings carefully, it is essential to consider a few key aspects. First, select the right material based on the sensitivity of your earlobes. Then, opt for clasps that ensure a secure hold, adapted to the type of earlobe . Also think about the shape of your face to harmonize your features with the style of the curls.


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Frequently Asked Questions About Earrings

What are the safest types of clasp for heavy earrings?

The screw clasp, the Alpa clasp and the hoop type earring, also called Huggies, are the most secure systems for heavy earrings.

How to adjust earrings for stretched or damaged lobes?

To adjust earrings to stretched or damaged lobes, you can compensate with a lobe support, choose lightweight loops and use suitable clasps.

What materials should I choose to minimize the risk of allergic reactions?

To minimize allergic reactions to earrings, opt for hypoallergenic materials like 14-karat or higher gold, sterling silver, and platinum.

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